I'm 55 and haven't had sex with my wife for TWO YEARS
It feels like we wouldn't even know where to start because it's been so long. For two years we have got into bed together, read books or looked at phones, and then gone straight to sleep.

TL;DR
- No sexual intimacy for two years.
- The couple reads books or looks at phones in bed before sleeping.
- There's a feeling of uncertainty about how to re-initiate intimacy.