When my teenage son was struggling, my partner reached him in ways I couldn’t
Lola’s* 19-year-old son started to find life difficult after a catastrophic falling out with university friends. When things were desperate, it was Lola’s boyfriend who managed to connect with him and help turn things around. Here, she thanks him from the bottom of her heart
TL;DR
- Harry became a supportive friend and confidant to Lola's son during a difficult divorce, without trying to replace his father.
- Harry listened to Lola's son when he was struggling with his A-levels and considering lowering his university expectations, helping him regain confidence and secure a place at a top university.
- When the son faced ostracization from university friends and moved back home, Harry again provided a calm, non-judgmental presence, enabling the son to heal.
- Harry's support, along with activities like gaming, forest walks, and cocktails, helped the son recover from shame and bewilderment.
- Lola learned from Harry's actions that she didn't always have to be the sole fixer, which eased her burden.