To the friends who were there when I became a full-time carer

When her mum fell ill, writer Minreet Kaur’s life was turned upside down. Overnight, she had to become a full-time carer – and at times, she felt isolated and unable to care for herself. Here, she thanks the friends who were there to pull her through

To the friends who were there when I became a full-time carer

TL;DR

  • The author became a full-time carer for her mother after a sudden cancer diagnosis.
  • This role led to significant personal changes, including giving up her job and experiencing isolation.
  • Three friends, Bharti, Rosie, and Sophia, provided crucial support throughout the three years.
  • Bharti offered emotional support, practical help with chores, and provided meals.
  • Rosie quietly offered kindness, listened, and helped with practical matters like searching for a new home.
  • Sophia assisted with career transition to freelancing and provided much-needed laughter.
  • The friends' actions demonstrated true friendship and helped the author stay strong.
  • The author expresses profound gratitude for their friendship, which became like family.