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You be the judge: should my partner stop eating off other people’s plates?
Helen says grabbing friends’ leftovers is a no-no. Bill thinks wasting food is wrong. You decide who should eat their words Find out how to get a disagreement settled or become a juror
TL;DR
- Helen believes Bill's practice of taking food from others' plates is embarrassing, unhygienic, and rude.
- Bill's justification is his strong aversion to food waste, especially meat, due to concerns about animal welfare and environmental impact.
- The specific incident involved Bill taking a duck breast from a friend's plate during a meal in Lisbon.
- Bill also engages in extreme waste reduction, such as retrieving a melon rind from a new bin bag to eat remaining fruit.
- Helen acknowledges Bill's good intentions but wishes he would ask for leftovers earlier, not when plates are being cleared.
- Bill admits his behavior can be awkward but maintains that wasting good food is fundamentally wrong.
- Guardian readers generally sided with Helen, emphasizing the importance of social etiquette and considering others' embarrassment.
- Some readers suggested Bill consider vegetarianism if animal welfare is a primary concern.