This is how we do it: ‘Since having cancer, I’m more open
Following the all-clear, Kevin and Jade found a new openness in discussing sex and intimacy – and also a shared desire for exploring polyamory
TL;DR
- The author recovered from drug addiction and cancer, impacting their relationship and sexuality.
- A cancer diagnosis and surgery led to a halt in sexual activity and a shift in the author's relationship with their sexuality.
- The author and partner Jade decided to explore polyamory after being in a good place in their relationship.
- Exploring non-monogamy led to increased attraction, confidence, and excitement for both partners.
- The author now identifies as queer, a shift from previously identifying as straight.
- The couple opened their relationship after eight years of monogamy, seeking to accelerate and share their positive space with others.
- They engage in sex-positive parties and have sex with other people, both solo and together.
- Challenges include managing different paces of exploration and balancing independence with togetherness.
- The exploration of polyamory has significantly improved the author's confidence and relationship with their body and sexuality.