To the friends who were there when I became a full-time carer
When her mum fell ill, writer Minreet Kaur’s life was turned upside down. Overnight, she had to become a full-time carer – and at times, she felt isolated and unable to care for herself. Here, she thanks the friends who were there to pull her through

TL;DR
- The author became a full-time carer for her mother after a sudden cancer diagnosis.
- This role led to significant personal changes, including giving up her job and experiencing isolation.
- Three friends, Bharti, Rosie, and Sophia, provided crucial support throughout the three years.
- Bharti offered emotional support, practical help with chores, and provided meals.
- Rosie quietly offered kindness, listened, and helped with practical matters like searching for a new home.
- Sophia assisted with career transition to freelancing and provided much-needed laughter.
- The friends' actions demonstrated true friendship and helped the author stay strong.
- The author expresses profound gratitude for their friendship, which became like family.